Very 1st blog

For my very 1st blog. I'm going to talk about someone I love very much and that is me!  The people that know me know that I am known for giving pretty good advice or so I'm told.  Truth be told it was a very long time before I took my own advice especially when it came to men.  A lot of men say I "Male Bash", I call it "Telling it like it is".  At any rate somethings are really not their fault, especially when you know who you're dealing with.  When you know what you're getting, when you get it don't complain about it.  I was in an on again off again relationship with this dude for years.  Now I knew exactly who he was and who he wasn't but I always gave him too much credit.  I was in Love and blah, blah, blah...Why? I do not know.  I knew what we had was nothing from the start but I continued to let him back in my life. When he broke my heart for the last time I woke up.  Everything he did to me I deserved because I let him do it to me. We need to stop laying down with these fools who ain't worth the change in our purse. I no longer wear my heart on my sleeve and some men I've dated will tell you I don't have one.  "I'm very proud of the Ice Queen title." :) A young woman is going to be a fool at least once but you don't have to play it when you old and rusty AND no better.  "Girl he changed" yeah right maybe his draws and that's about it!! Please stop it!! Women do that so much, but not men.  Think about how many men you know that will forgive a woman after she has made him look like a fool?  Yes there will be some but most men have a lot of pride. They may say they forgive you but it ain't so and behind your back he with your bf.  Hookup with his boy and see if he forgives you, I think not.  I was always told people deserve a 2nd chance, but why?  Cut it out! The 3 strikes only apply to Baseball.  1 is all I need and you outta here! I can forgive you all day, but I don't have to give you a 2nd chance.  Will the police give me one when I cut you?  At the end of the day you can't control your heart but you can control your head.  Think and go for what you know and save yourself some grief and maybe some jail time.