Before you try to throw a rock at somebody’s house make sure it doesn’t ricochet and take your eye out. You don’t know their personal relationship with God and they might be straight for all you know. That being said we have all done some things that if it came out we could be bought for less than a penny. You would be very cheap! Everybody thought they knew Whitney Houston because she was in the spotlight. You knew the entertainer not the woman. No matter under what circumstance she died it’s still sad because she is gone. She had her demons on public display because she was famous, but what about your demons! Are you proud of what you’ve done? Would you admit if you were found out? Well she did and took full responsibilities for her actions. Bobby didn’t force feed her drugs even if he introduced her to them. That we do not know, but everyone thinks they have all the answers. Just shut up sometimes! That man is grieving as well. Married or divorced she is the mother of his child and someone he thought he would grow old with. If you’ve never lost a spouse or an ex-spouse then you have no idea what he is going through. I on the other hand no all too well. When my ex-husband was killed you would have thought that I was the one that pulled the trigger. There is something about death that makes people “cut the fool” and make them experts on the deceased and everyone in their life. Just because someone dies it does not make them a martyr it’s how they lived that does. In death I still remember how you were in life huh!! but for the sake of the family some things you can let ride and I did. And umm where were these people when he was alive and out of control? Oh yeah that’s right they were hating his guts but now that he's dead you guys are bff. Good looking out and thanks for being a true friend! Look at all the people who say they love Whitney now, but were not there in her darkest hour. Give it a rest people. What is done is done. Stop bringing up things you kept a secret for the 20 yrs that you’ve known her but now you want to tell. Why? Does it make you feel better? You are losers for making her family suffer more pain. Think about her family and let the woman rest. No disrespect to the military which I do love, but it’s not her fault that she is famous and is getting more coverage than our fallen troops. It is wrong in so many ways, because they made the ultimate sacrifice. Blame the media for that.